Have you ever had a dream that was too big and shared it with your loved ones? Instead of support, the responses you received were, “You are too old”, “It’s too late”, “You will never achieve it”, or “You are crazy”. You are not alone. I am one of the dreamers.
In September 2011, I decided to go to Australia and gave up everything I had in Taiwan to pursue my dream and happiness. I couldn’t wait to share my plan with my parents.
“Mum and Dad, I have big news and want to share it with you. I am going to Australia to study for my master’s degree and live in Australia.” I was very excited—in total silence. The first thing my dad asked was, “How much?”. You know, in my culture, it’s all about the money. “You should get married and have children at your age. You are not young anymore”, said my sweet, supporting Mum.
After 3 hours of discussion and arguments, they knew they couldn’t change my mind. My dad firmly stated, “You are no longer part of our family if you decide to leave us”. I was shocked. “If you go, you are not allowed to come back until you succeed”, it was my Mum.
I was devastated, but the decision was already made, so “Australia, here I come!”.
In November 2011, I began my journey in Australia. However, things were different from what I expected. It was my first time studying abroad, and English was my second language. The beginning was tough.
Three months after I arrived in Australia, I called my mum: “Hello, who is this?” I could hear my Mum’s voice from the other side of the phone. I started to cry, “Mum, you were right. I don’t think I can make it. Can I come home?” Silence… Again… Thinking about it, I may write another speech about the Chou family’s communication. Anyhow…
I was anxious and waited for her answer. Finally, she said, “You have made your decision, as promised. There is only one way to keep going until you reach your destination. You are not allowed to come back.” Then she hung up.
My heart sank. After a few days, I finally stood up and encouraged myself, “OK, Alice. Yes, you made your decision, and you promised yourself you could do it, just one step at a time,” Every day, I visualised myself wearing my master’s gown and receiving my degree with my parents attending the graduation ceremony, which helped me keep going.
In April 2015, at my graduation ceremony, I waited to be called my name. “Pei-Yu Chou, Master of Teaching Birth to Five”, the MC announced. I stood up and walked toward the stage. My hands shook, and I couldn’t believe this moment had finally come true.
While standing on the stage in my master’s gown, I searched where my parents were. There was my mum, waving her hands with the biggest joyful smile. Right next to her was my dad. He stood up and filmed with his phone when I received my Master of Teaching Degree. Steve Job once said, “If you have not found what you love, keep looking; don’t settle until you find it”. My story tells you to dream big and not be afraid. If I can, you can too!
